MENTOR RESOURCES
 
      


Rules Agreement - Safety Net Mentoring Program

As a volunteer for the Safety Net Youth Mentoring Program I agree:

  • To maintain appropriate adult behavior at all times.

  • To expect less than age-appropriate behavior from the youth.

  • To exhibit behavior that is respectful and assumes equality toward members of all sexes, ethnic/racial and religious groups, and to avoid comments that can be construed as racist, sexist, or bigoted.

  • To avoid any inappropriate materials or activities of any kind, including those which are sexually explicit or dangerous.

  • To accept supervision by the program director in order to improve my volunteer service.

  • To inform the program director immediately of any major crisis or changes in the youth's life, as well as in my own.

  • To inform the program director of a change of address, telephone number, or e-mail address.

  • To notify the program director of any extended leave, resignation, or a desire to change assignments.

  • To report on each mentoring contact. Reports will be sent within the week, by e-mail or a mentor form through the mail. Information should detail the frequency, length, and nature of the activities.

  • To treat the youth's parent(s)/guardian(s) with respect, and avoid criticism or negative comments about them to, or in front of, the child.

  • To keep relationships with youth's parents on a professional level.

  • To set reasonable limits for the youth and not violate rules set by the youth's parent(s) or by the program.

  • To plan activities which are compatible with the youth's other appropriate relationships and activities.

  • To maintain the youth's curfew, and always return him to his own home at the end of an activity.

  • To respect the rights and wishes of the youth, and never use shame or coersion to get him to participate in activities favored by the volunteer.

  • To avoid indulging the youth with extravagant gifts, money, food, or outings.

  • To attend in-service training sessions and group meetings, and advise the program director ahead of time if I will not be able to attend.

  • To choose appropriate, positive activities. (When in doubt, choose a different activity, or contact the program director).

A mentor signs a copy of these rules with your application. We assume that your word is your bond!